All These Things I Hate
August 18, 2006
Right now I’m in a pretty bad mood, for a lot of reasons. For starters, I was supposed to go over to Skid Head’s house this morning and watch some movies B1 rented before he went to his interview at three, but he never called. I got up early (at nine, but hey that’s early enough) and I was showered and ready by ten. And he didn’t even have the decency to call me.
Why does this piss me off so much? Well it makes me look stupid in front of my family for getting stood up. And it’s disrespectful. And rude. If you can’t make it somewhere, then you call the person to let them know, am I wrong?
Tomorrow I’m supposed to be going to his house for a party we’re throwing for MB, but I really don’t feel like going. MB wants me to go, but I’m really mad at Skid Head. And unless he makes it up to me, then I won’t. Maybe I’ll not call him and stand him up, give him a taste of his own medicine. I probably wouldn’t do that though because I’m going camping soon and it would be nice to see him before I leave. And last night he told me that he was switching schools, and would be moving within the first three months of school. He doesn’t mind because he likes “starting fresh”. He doesn’t seem to realize that if he switches schools then we’ll like never see each other. When I pointed that out to him, he said we’d figure it out and he would still go to his dads.
I was told that I would lose Skid Head to the distance, and that he’d find someone better and closer. That’s a nice thing to say, isn’t it? But those are my new worries.
September 1st, 2006 at 12:39 am
Let me give you a piece of advice…from one girl to another (I’ve been stood up twice) and both times I left and didn’t wait around. Don’t buy into the excuses….once is maybe excusable if they have a legit excuse….however, just blowing you off is rude and totally disrespectful….it means he didn’t think of you first. If he can’t think of you first now he won’t ever think of you first. Just some food for thought.
If you lose him to distance count your blessings. Maybe it’s better that way. Be an independent woman without the need for a guy in your life. If I had it to do over again I would have set higher goals for myself rather than 1. get married 2. wait til I was older to go back to school.